Baby Shower (Not Mine)

Posted on April 2 2009 by kevin

So…this past weekend I attended the Baby Shower of my friends Matt and Melissa. In the last year, they have become some of my favorite people and I’m forever in Trish’s debt for introducing us. Both of them now help in some capacity part time with the web development company and their assistance is invaluable.

Speaking of Trish…I was kind of nervous. Due to travel schedules and disagreements we hadn’t seen each other in a few weeks and I know there were some hurt feelings on both sides. Trish showed up with her sisters’ son…Bradley aka Brocoli aka the kid who said I was bear…whom I love dearly. For me, it was a little uncomfortable seeing her at first but slowly we warmed up and talked a bit throughout the day. Eventually I took Bradley out on Matt’s Go Kart and we drove all over the dirt back roads for about 20 minutes and had a great time.

Trish and I grabbed dinner and ended up having a good day so we decided to hang out on Sunday for a bit as well. I have never been around someone where we can get along great one moment and then just have an instant of miscommunication and have it all go to shit….which happened Sunday.

She’s a great, great girl and when it is good, it is good but when we argue…it is bad…and painful. I hope there is a way to resolve this in a positive way, but I worry. For now we are going to not hang out for a while and give each other some space and see if we can reconnect or not in the future. The entire situation makes me sad. =(