When described by the women I’ve dated, there generally ends up being two distinctly different, yet accurate descriptions of myself. Kind/loving, funny, and considerate are generally quickly followed by enigmatic, frustrating, and difficult to understand. I’ve become used to this so on the few occasions an individual truly understands me, it comes as a shock…and [...]

1. The typical lovemaking session lasts around 15 minutes: roughly 10 to 12 minutes of foreplay and around 3 to 5 minutes of intercourse. 2. Humans aren’t the only horny members of the animal kingdom doing it just for fun. Dolphins and a type of chimpanzee called the bonobo have also been observed engaging in [...]

Sometimes you just have to wonder if fate really does have a plan or there is some sort of grand scheme that we just run around as part of. Friday while randomly dropping off an invoice to a new client, I inadvertently ran into the ex’s Mother who apparently is working next door to my [...]

For the last month I’ve been hanging out with a young lady whom I dated briefly three years ago. As with everyone I’ve dated (except for the two people I thought I might marry) I’ve stayed friends with and in touch with my ex’s. I occasionally join them for dinner or exchange emails. They were [...]

I’m 32, unmarried, and like to assume that I was genetically blessed with at least average looks. To say I’ve had at least one or two sexual encounters would be fair . They ranged from terrible (one or two) to several women who were just on the same wavelength as I was which = awesomesauce. [...]

Last night I enjoyed a friendly dinner with a woman I had dated briefly about a year ago. If I recall correctly, the only one of my friends who met her was Kai. Apparently by a freak coincidence, she found me on myspace a month or so ago (surprising that she recognized me since I [...]

She’s tall (5’11″ or so), she’s hot, she’s got a great sense of humor, and she’s intelligent. I’ll be buggered if I’m not smitten! Good conversation, lots of laughing, no red flags on either side of the table I believe. Despite many little jokes and pranks throughout 2-1/2 hours of dinner at Stonewood, I believe [...]

[editor's note]This is so true, it’s not even funny! Required reading for anyone who wants to date me. Stolen from this site. Yes, it’s not a common question, but I see this question pop up often enough that it warrants a HOWTO for those who want to know. So, how to get a geek guy [...]

For a little while I’ve been talking to a rather interesting chick. She’s currently a teacher who at one time did a little lingerie modeling (I’ve seen some photos…she’s legit). Tall, attractive, and a great sense of humor. I look forward to hanging out and learning more about her. Also of note, a young lady [...]

She’s cute in that country girl way. I’ll need a private lunch or dinner before I can make a judgement on any type of potential. Apart from the fact, especially after yesterday, I’m not certain I want to do more than have casual dates here and there at the moment. Which is highly unlike me.